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02/05/2007: "Is it true?"
music: Jewel - Standing Still
mood: Not So Happy
Is it true what they say "Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved before?" Many people will argue the yes, but then there are those that argue the no. But the answer itself lies within thy self. No one can tell you what to feel, its up to you.
For my, I've done more "lost" than "love" and I must say I prefer to say that this saying is quite false. Love does feel wonderful when you're in it, but afterwards, the pain, heartache, tears, hatred, the sense of loneliness, or anything else you could possibly feel is unbearable. Love hurts, it destroys many hearts in a year. This feeling of loneliness, and heartache would never be there in the first place if you never loved at all. You would be fine with yourself. You may long for another, but that feeling will pass at time.
Friends, family is where its at. Without those, who are you really? Family makes you who you are even if family hasn't been the nicest thing to you. You wouldn't be you without it. Sure outside influences help, but its family that matters the most.
If you find that endless love, keep it and hopefully you will never have to feel this pain. But if you don't, you know what I'm trying to get at.